X Factor Diana Vickers Smile Inspired Make-up
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One of Lauren's make-up tutorials... She's been quite popular on Youtube...
Saturday, March 21, 2009
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9 Reasons People Cheat
by Rich Santos, Marie Claire, on Mon Mar 16, 2009 8:05am PDT
Why do I find it so easy not to cheat?
Maybe I'm not very attractive, so my options are limited. Maybe I'm too jaded to go for the cheating opportunities. Maybe I still have some mental wounds lingering from when my dad temporarily moved out because he had met another woman. Maybe I'm too afraid that I've reached my sin quotient and one more big sin will keep me out of heaven.
Cheating is not a caught in the moment thing if you are really into your significant other, you miss them when you are not with them, you don't look for a way to hurt or deceive them.
I am just now patching up a friendship with someone I was seeing while they had a boyfriend (that may make me a cheater). At different points she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend, that they were back together, and that he was boring and I was fun. It was total confusion.
I told her she wasn't being fair to herself, me, or him.
Finally, she said, "you just don't understand, there are things you don't know." Thing is she's been cheating on him for a couple of years with different guys, and he keeps taking her back.
So, are cheaters born cheaters, or do certain situations cause people to cheat? Probably a little bit of both. Here are some situations that make people cheat:
1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.
2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.
3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.
4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.
5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.
6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.
7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.
8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.
9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.
I don't understand why people don't break up as soon as they have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? If you've ever cheated, why did you do it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?
From: http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/9-reasons-people-cheat-430729
by Rich Santos, Marie Claire, on Mon Mar 16, 2009 8:05am PDT
Why do I find it so easy not to cheat?
Maybe I'm not very attractive, so my options are limited. Maybe I'm too jaded to go for the cheating opportunities. Maybe I still have some mental wounds lingering from when my dad temporarily moved out because he had met another woman. Maybe I'm too afraid that I've reached my sin quotient and one more big sin will keep me out of heaven.
Cheating is not a caught in the moment thing if you are really into your significant other, you miss them when you are not with them, you don't look for a way to hurt or deceive them.
I am just now patching up a friendship with someone I was seeing while they had a boyfriend (that may make me a cheater). At different points she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend, that they were back together, and that he was boring and I was fun. It was total confusion.
I told her she wasn't being fair to herself, me, or him.
Finally, she said, "you just don't understand, there are things you don't know." Thing is she's been cheating on him for a couple of years with different guys, and he keeps taking her back.
So, are cheaters born cheaters, or do certain situations cause people to cheat? Probably a little bit of both. Here are some situations that make people cheat:
1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.
2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.
3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.
4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.
5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.
6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.
7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.
8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.
9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.
I don't understand why people don't break up as soon as they have an urge to cheat. Is it natural to have temptation, or is temptation a sign that the relationship is losing its fire? What reasons would you add to this list, and do you disagree with any? If you've ever cheated, why did you do it? Could you forgive a cheater? If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?
From: http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/9-reasons-people-cheat-430729
Friday, March 20, 2009
Frustrated Dancer
i really love to watch people dancing...and i love to dance, i just don't do it...nyahahaha!!!
please watch the video below and feel a little nostalgic especially people on my age group...
i love this guys... hope you enjoy...!!!
enjoy!!!
please watch the video below and feel a little nostalgic especially people on my age group...
i love this guys... hope you enjoy...!!!
enjoy!!!
eto title nang mga song galing kay BruceWayne968,
1) stars by simply red
2) always
3) dying inside
4) mmmm bop
5) its a beautiful life
6) tootsie roll
7) the bomb
8) on'e samera plus jamais (french song)
9) friends
10) reneagde master
11) no limits remix
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BY-Ip27kR7A
1) stars by simply red
2) always
3) dying inside
4) mmmm bop
5) its a beautiful life
6) tootsie roll
7) the bomb
8) on'e samera plus jamais (french song)
9) friends
10) reneagde master
11) no limits remix
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BY-Ip27kR7A
TOP 3
Your top 3...
THREE NAMES YOU GO BY:
joyce
mau
dubs
THREE THINGS YOU LIKE ABOUT
YOURSELF:
simple
tahimik
fast learner
THREE THINGS YOU HATE ABOUT
YOURSELF:
tamad
mainipin
pikon
THREE THINGS YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND:
love
life
deja vu
THREE THINGS THAT ANNOY YOU:
mayabang
maarte
late
THREE THINGS THAT SCARE YOU
cockroaches
spider
mumu..
THREE OF YOUR EVERYDAY ESSENTIALS:
money
food
cellphone....
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE BRANDS:
la e...
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITES SONGS @
THE MOMENT:
love story
disturbia
circus
THREE PEOPLE YOU SPEND THE MOST
TIME WITH:
sarah
gelo
xat mates!!
THREE CLOSEST GUY FRIENDS :
wala ata....
THREE CLOSEST GIRL FRIENDS :
princess
cecile
marian
THREE THINGS YOU CAN'T DO:
mag gitara
mag drawing
mag tumbling
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE HOBBIES:
eat
chat
sleep..
THREE THINGS YOU WANT REALLY BAD
RIGHT NOW:
lap top
new cellphone
money..madaming madami..lolz..
THREE CAREERS YOU'RE CONSIDERING:
nurse
nurse
nurse
THREE PLACES YOU WOULD GO ON
VACATION:
baguio
london
tokyo
THREE NAMES YOU GO BY:
joyce
mau
dubs
THREE THINGS YOU LIKE ABOUT
YOURSELF:
simple
tahimik
fast learner
THREE THINGS YOU HATE ABOUT
YOURSELF:
tamad
mainipin
pikon
THREE THINGS YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND:
love
life
deja vu
THREE THINGS THAT ANNOY YOU:
mayabang
maarte
late
THREE THINGS THAT SCARE YOU
cockroaches
spider
mumu..
THREE OF YOUR EVERYDAY ESSENTIALS:
money
food
cellphone....
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE BRANDS:
la e...
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITES SONGS @
THE MOMENT:
love story
disturbia
circus
THREE PEOPLE YOU SPEND THE MOST
TIME WITH:
sarah
gelo
xat mates!!
THREE CLOSEST GUY FRIENDS :
wala ata....
THREE CLOSEST GIRL FRIENDS :
princess
cecile
marian
THREE THINGS YOU CAN'T DO:
mag gitara
mag drawing
mag tumbling
THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE HOBBIES:
eat
chat
sleep..
THREE THINGS YOU WANT REALLY BAD
RIGHT NOW:
lap top
new cellphone
money..madaming madami..lolz..
THREE CAREERS YOU'RE CONSIDERING:
nurse
nurse
nurse
THREE PLACES YOU WOULD GO ON
VACATION:
baguio
london
tokyo
Thursday, March 19, 2009
FONTANA REUNION
Dinner time!!!!
Picture-picture muna bago umuwi.
The bar girls...lolz...
Picture-picture in front of the villa...
Death march pauwi..nyahaha!!!
Stop over muna...lolz!
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Sis Shel...Pagaya ha...hehehe!!!!!
Q&A
> 1. kwento ng name mo?
> - Maureen was taken from an actress, Joyce was from....i forgot...nyaha!
> 2. anung kwento ng last birthday mo?
> - i was in Dubai last year...un lang, it was dry..lolz
> 3. anung kwento ng 1st lovelife mo?
> - sa'kin na lang yun..nyahahaha!!!!
> 4. anung kwento ng lovelife mo ngayon?
> - aahmmmm... wala ako nyan....
> 5. anung kwento ng buhok mo ngayon.
> - it's dry, humaba na, may itim na sa crown coz it's dyed, may kulot na din... gusto kong pa-rebond..lolz
> 6. anung kwento ng computer mo?
> - this is my bro's laptop..un lang..
> 7. anung kwento ng kwarto mo?
> - ung kwarto ko today is the master's bedroom... wala mga masters eh...lolz...
> 8. anung kwento mo last christmas?
> - last xmas, we were here sa haws, as usual may exchange gift...kulang lang kami, wala na si lola eh...it's sad...
> 9. anung kwento mo last valentines day?
> - wala eh, post valentine nag date kmi ng girl friends ko...yun lang..it was fun naman....
> 10 . anung kwento ng chinelas na suot mo?
> - binili ko to sa SM, buy 1 take 1 for 99.75pesos...yun...mura eh, panlalake nga eh...
> 11. anung kwento nung una mong nakita yung crush mo?
> - wala... apathetic ako..lolz, para di halata...nyahahaha!!!!
> 13. anung kwento nung best movie na pinanood mo?
> - aahhmmmmm..... too many to mention....lolz.....
> 14. anung kwento nung last time na umiyak ka?
> - aaahmmmmmm.....
> 15. GIVE 3 NAMES IN.. YOUR CELLPHONE INBOX .
> - pangz, mark, princess
> 16. WHAT IS YOUR MAIN RINGTONE?
> - snowball...lolz...
> 17. WHAT DID YOU DO AT 12 LAST NIGHT?
> - naglalaro sa Y8..lolz..
> 18. WHO WAS/WERE THE LAST PERSON/S YOU WENT OUT WITH? WHERE?
> - si Melai... sa McDo...
> 19. WHAT IS THE COLOR OF THE T-SHIRT YOURE WEARING NOW?
> - Green, striped...
> 20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU DID?
> - when? eat ata...
> 21. NAME 3 OF YOUR FAVORITE ITEMS.
> - my cellphone, lap top, money!!!!
> 1. kwento ng name mo?
> - Maureen was taken from an actress, Joyce was from....i forgot...nyaha!
> 2. anung kwento ng last birthday mo?
> - i was in Dubai last year...un lang, it was dry..lolz
> 3. anung kwento ng 1st lovelife mo?
> - sa'kin na lang yun..nyahahaha!!!!
> 4. anung kwento ng lovelife mo ngayon?
> - aahmmmm... wala ako nyan....
> 5. anung kwento ng buhok mo ngayon.
> - it's dry, humaba na, may itim na sa crown coz it's dyed, may kulot na din... gusto kong pa-rebond..lolz
> 6. anung kwento ng computer mo?
> - this is my bro's laptop..un lang..
> 7. anung kwento ng kwarto mo?
> - ung kwarto ko today is the master's bedroom... wala mga masters eh...lolz...
> 8. anung kwento mo last christmas?
> - last xmas, we were here sa haws, as usual may exchange gift...kulang lang kami, wala na si lola eh...it's sad...
> 9. anung kwento mo last valentines day?
> - wala eh, post valentine nag date kmi ng girl friends ko...yun lang..it was fun naman....
> 10 . anung kwento ng chinelas na suot mo?
> - binili ko to sa SM, buy 1 take 1 for 99.75pesos...yun...mura eh, panlalake nga eh...
> 11. anung kwento nung una mong nakita yung crush mo?
> - wala... apathetic ako..lolz, para di halata...nyahahaha!!!!
> 13. anung kwento nung best movie na pinanood mo?
> - aahhmmmmm..... too many to mention....lolz.....
> 14. anung kwento nung last time na umiyak ka?
> - aaahmmmmmm.....
> 15. GIVE 3 NAMES IN.. YOUR CELLPHONE INBOX .
> - pangz, mark, princess
> 16. WHAT IS YOUR MAIN RINGTONE?
> - snowball...lolz...
> 17. WHAT DID YOU DO AT 12 LAST NIGHT?
> - naglalaro sa Y8..lolz..
> 18. WHO WAS/WERE THE LAST PERSON/S YOU WENT OUT WITH? WHERE?
> - si Melai... sa McDo...
> 19. WHAT IS THE COLOR OF THE T-SHIRT YOURE WEARING NOW?
> - Green, striped...
> 20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU DID?
> - when? eat ata...
> 21. NAME 3 OF YOUR FAVORITE ITEMS.
> - my cellphone, lap top, money!!!!
Recipes
Chicken Curry Recipe (Filipino Style)
Ingredients :
· 2-3 tbsp. oil
· 3 potatoes, peeled, quartered and fried
· 1 lb. chicken, cut into serving pieces
· 3 cloves garlic, minced
· 1 large onion, quartered
· 1 tbsp. patis (fish sauce)
· 3 tbsp. curry powder
· salt and pepper
· 1 cup water
· 1 red bell pepper, cut into big squares
· 1 green bell pepper, cut into big squares
· 3 celery stalks, cut into 1-1/2” long
· 1 cup coconut milk or evaporated milk
Steps:
1. Pan fry potatoes. Set aside.
2. In the same pan, fry chicken pieces and brown a little.
3. Add garlic and onion. Sauté for a few minutes until soft.
4. Pour in patis and season with curry powder, salt and pepper. Stir for 2 minutes.
5. Add water. Cover and bring to a boil. Lower the heat; add celery, bell peppers and fried potatoes. Simmer for 3 minutes or until half done.
6. Add milk and stir occasionally. Cook for another 7 minutes (or lesser when using evaporated milk because the liquids will curled).
7. Remove from heat. Serve hot.
Ingredients :
· 2-3 tbsp. oil
· 3 potatoes, peeled, quartered and fried
· 1 lb. chicken, cut into serving pieces
· 3 cloves garlic, minced
· 1 large onion, quartered
· 1 tbsp. patis (fish sauce)
· 3 tbsp. curry powder
· salt and pepper
· 1 cup water
· 1 red bell pepper, cut into big squares
· 1 green bell pepper, cut into big squares
· 3 celery stalks, cut into 1-1/2” long
· 1 cup coconut milk or evaporated milk
Steps:
1. Pan fry potatoes. Set aside.
2. In the same pan, fry chicken pieces and brown a little.
3. Add garlic and onion. Sauté for a few minutes until soft.
4. Pour in patis and season with curry powder, salt and pepper. Stir for 2 minutes.
5. Add water. Cover and bring to a boil. Lower the heat; add celery, bell peppers and fried potatoes. Simmer for 3 minutes or until half done.
6. Add milk and stir occasionally. Cook for another 7 minutes (or lesser when using evaporated milk because the liquids will curled).
7. Remove from heat. Serve hot.
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